Holding a detailed substantial discussion about how you intend to carry out your responsibilities as a man will help remove doubts and your lover will eventually love you unconditionally.
Some people are always skeptical when it comes to love.You will realize that you are unable to convince him/her to love you. However, this should not worry you because there are some tactics to employ in order to fully make them trust you and fall in love with you. Here are two processes that you must involve:
1. Ensure you induce positive motivation in them; for someone to be interested in something, he/she must be motivated towards it. In order to make someone fall in love with you, you must give them positive motivation to want to be with you. At its simplest level this involves showing them your positive characteristics and traits so that they will be attracted to you. This is quite simple to understand. Ensure that you let them know about your achievements in life, your ambitions, your yearns and in general your performance in those achievements. This will build a positive motivation in them and they will feel that you are a success-oriented person. Everyone needs to be associated with successful people and trust me they will love you.
2. Eliminate negative motivation in them; ensure you also mention of your weaknesses either those that are physical or those unseen. Assure them that you will try as much as possible to make them happy always. To make someone fall in love with you, you must also remove any negative motivation they may have for not wanting to get with you. The reality is that a person may like you a lot, but they might be afraid to fall in love with you for one reason or another. Try to change their attitude by your actions such as providing essential goods and services they may require.